A few times in recent weeks I’ve had the chance to ask others a favourite question for sussing out some specifics of an often nebulous inner impulse –
What do you most want people to know, to “get” deep down inside that it could almost, if not actually change their DNA?
Taking the opportunity to poke about once again, I quickly realized my answer has definitely changed since the question was initially posed to me.
Also of note, instead of one clear most, now I waver between two possibilities.
On one hand, what I most want people to get deep down inside is be full of yourself.
Full out, Full. Of. Yourself.
I so dearly want people to stop hiding and holding back for fear of being seen as a bragging, swelled headed, chest puffing know-it-all
When one lights up, others do too. The domino effect kicks in all over.
What this really comes down to … we can’t afford to keep ourselves -and each other – small anymore. We can’t afford to fit in or pretend to be somebody we’re not.
We’re all at a decision point. The changes we know need to be made require all of us to show up and be a part, our part. The time is over to look to one person, even a few, to carry the entire load on their shoulders. The results are in – alone doesn’t work.
Stepping up to let our true selves out in full force, we Lighten the load for everyone else. Empowering each other is really our only way forward. There’s no longer a question of who goes first. We all do.
As deeply as I know being full of yourself is DNA changing, I have the same depth of knowing about the other message I most want people to get.